YOUR GUIDE TO
WEDDING TIMELINES
Plan your dream wedding with ease at Morrison House, a boutique hotel wedding venue in the heart of Old Town Alexandria, Virginia. Our expert timelines guide you from engagement to “I do,” helping you stay organized every step of the way. From a detailed planning checklist to a seamless day-of schedule, we make creating your perfect Alexandria wedding simple and stress-free.
Your Planning Timeline
12+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Set Budget
- Hire wedding planner, if using
- Draft guest list and start collecting addresses, emails, and phone numbers
- Reserve ceremony and reception venues, and set wedding date
- Begin wedding dress shopping
- Establish a rain plan, if outdoors
- Select and invite wedding party
- Hire a photographer
9+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Order gown
- Order tuxedo/suit
- Reserve a caterer, if applicable
- Reserve DJ or band
- Begin your wedding gift registry
- Create a wedding website
- Reserve a hotel wedding room block for guests
6+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Select and maile save-the-dates
- Reserve and officiant
- Hire a florist
- Order stationery, if necessary
- Order wedding party outfits
- Start planning the honeymoon
4+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Begin gown/suit fittings
- Finalize catering menu
- Reserve rentals
- Reserve transportation
- Plan rehearsal dinner
- Order cake
- Make a favorite song list for the DJ or band
3+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Mail invitations, if you are planning a destination or holiday wedding send your reservations 12 weeks ahead
- Select ceremony readings and music
- Reserve a hairstylist and makeup artist
- Attend hair and makeup trials
- Order favors
- Finalize florals
2 MONTHS BEFORE
- Mail rehearsal dinner invitations
- Attend tasting with caterer
- Discuss vendor meals with caterer
- Select wedding party gifts
- Gather wedding-day details
6 WEEKS BEFORE
- Purchase rings
- Buy garter, if doing a toss
- Create signature drink
4 WEEKS BEFORE
- Plan reception seating chart
- Visit Clerk of the Circuit Court office for marriage license
- Decide who will share readings and/or toasts
- Finalize and print ceremony programs
- Finalize day-0f-schedule with vendors, see an example below
- Write/select vows
2 WEEKS BEFORE
- Give caterer final guest count
- Finalize playlist with DJ/band and ceremony music
- Finalize your shot list with the photographer
- Finalize transportation and assign leaders who will assist guests
- Finalize reception decor plans
- Break in wedding shoes
- Plan snacks for getting-ready rooms
WEEK-OF WEDDING
- Pick up gown and tuxedo/suit
- Gather your day-of essentials
- Organize emergency wedding kit supplies
- Assign someone to help gather family/attendants for photographs
- Assemble favors and welcome bags
- Assign day-of point person (to answer guest questions), if not planner
- Pick up wedding rings
- Confirm all vendor delivery or arrival times
- Confirm wedding party members know their arrival times
- Make some spa time for a manicure and pedicure
DAY BEFORE WEDDING
- Attend rehearsal dinner
- Prepare drinks and snacks for getting-ready rooms
- Organize tip envelopes for vendors
- Confirm transportation pickup times and addresses
- Double-check your outfit details, including shapewear and shoes
- Pack bags for wedding night and honeymoon
DAY OF WEDDING
- Stay hydrated with lots of water and be sure to eat something
- Gather your essentials including phone, lipstick, etc. in a purse or tote and assign a party member to be in charge of getting you and your things to the wedding
- Remember to let others take care of the details of the day. Your job will only be to enjoy it!
Day-Of Timeline
SAMPLE TIMELINE
4:30 PM Guests Arrive
5:00 PM Ceremony Begins
5:30 PM Ceremony Ends
5:30 – 6:30 PM Cocktail Hour
6:30 PM Guests Seated for Dinner
6:40 PM Grand Entrance and First Dance
6:45 PM Welcome Toast / Prayer
7:00 PM Dinner Begins
8:00 PM Dinner Concludes
8:00 PM Toasts / Speeches
8:15 PM Cake Cutting
8:20 PM Parent Dances
8:25 PM Dancing Begins
9:00 PM Late-Night Snacks
9:25 PM Last Dance with Guests
9:30 PM Wedding Concludes
Happily Ever After!
